Me and the Other Girls

Posted at 01:42pm November 16 2004(@tabulas)

While most of the girls are busy running after the guys, I’m here figuring out why they act that way. It is as if there is a scarcity of male. I really cannot understand the reason behind such action. Why do they have to follow after their crushes? Why do they have to make “pacute” and “papansin” to the guys they like? Can’t they just wait until the guys show their interests to them?

I deem it to be self-degrading once the girl makes the first move. Well, if a guy likes a girl, he would make his own move. Once a girl makes her move, the guy might lose his interest with the girl. It is very much challenging for the guys to court a girl who doesn’t show that much interests. I think, the guys will agree with me. Am I right?

This attitude of most of the girls really irritates me. I really want to slap their faces and tell them, “Hey, look at what you are doing to yourselves!” They really piss me off. They open the idea that guys could just play with the girls. That’s why sometimes most of the guys won’t pay respect to some girls.

What is so blissful about following your crush if in reality you know that he doesn’t like you at all? Aren’t you just fooling your self? Or, most of the girls just have the sick pleasure of making pacute and papansin.

Another thing I can’t understand with other girls is the idea of being beautiful. A lot of girls are happy when there are a number of people courting them. What’s good about it? Do you feel beautiful with the number of people liking you? It’s another sick pleasure of a lot of girls when they found out that they are “heartthrobs.” I won’t feel rewarded with that.

Let’s say a lot of guys like you but the one you really like doesn’t like you, would you still feel happy? The only time I will feel pleased is when the man I like will tell me that he likes me. What will I do with a number of guys liking me if I won’t like them anyway?

Moreover, I really find it startling when a girl ends up with someone she doesn’t really like just for the sake of having a boyfriend. I know a lot of girls who actually have a boyfriend because they consider it necessary. They feel that they are out of fad if they won’t have a boyfriend. Oh, please…

Even if I were at the end of the line, I would not hurry to go forward just to have a boyfriend. Well, I don’t mind if I end up alone forever. I prefer to be alone than to make a choice that will make me suffer for a lifetime. I would never end up with someone I don’t like just because of fear and social pressure